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Quote: Originally Posted by maskedviperus ...any ways to nicely tell her to go to hell? ...

See if you can get an injuction to prevent her coming within 100 yards of you. In your application for same, cite the reason as her being a psycho hose beast.

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Wear a massive crucifix under your shirt, and carry Holy water wih you at all times. If she gets too close, make like she's a vampire & shove the cross in her face & throw the Holy water at her.

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Tell her she's put you off women for life & your going to become a monk, taking a vow of silence. If she argues, hold up a card saying that vow has just started.

hmm, good humor, but bad advice

So all of us old farts wouldn't understand? You know I do seem to remember being 15 once, but I'm sure I wouldn't be able to grasp what a 15 year old has to go through now.

oh no, a girl likes you, you poor thing. i dont know what i would do if i had 2 girls that liked me at once, that would just be aweful...

As great as it sounds bob, crazy women are just that, crazy. i've had my share. I cant seem to date stable girls and i'm too nuts myself to have to be the stable one in a relationship...

As for your problem maskedviperus, you said you're already with someone else, so she should get the hint, just ignore/avoid her untill she does. Either that or fix her up with one of your friends who doesn't know shes a spaz. Although i do like Johnnys second suggestion and may have to file that away for possible future use...

If you want it to end fast, I'm thinking phone. You've obviously got a emotional investment in this psycho in training and she in you. Pick up the phone and talk to her and explain why you don't want any further attention from her. People like closure. That's why we have open casket funerals instead of just hiring someone to dispose of the body. Don't be a jerk, don't get mad, just calmly cooly end it. The opposite of love is not hate or anger. It's indifference.

The other option is to ignore her until she goes away. Unless she's boiling your pet rabbit, she ain't hurting nothing by pining for you.

Quote: Originally Posted by AntiM ... People like closure. That's why we have open casket funerals instead of just hiring someone to dispose of the body. ...

I've always wondered why you go in for open casket funereals in such a big way in the US ... putting the coffin into the furnace, or filling in a grave seems final enough to me.

Quote: Originally Posted by Cyno01 As great as it sounds bob, crazy women are just that, crazy. i've had my share. I cant seem to date stable girls and i'm too nuts myself to have to be the stable one in a relationship...

It's hard to date what doesn't exist. J/K but girls have it rough trying to find their place in society nowadays. The advice I give to my 18 year old stepson and my 17 year old stepdaughter is to go out with as many peolpe as they can and have fun. They learn more about themselves as people and it also helps them to recognize good and bad relationships. I try to tell them not to get too serious with one person because at the ages they are it is rare that either they or there boyfriend/ girlfriend are mature enough to carry out a significant long term relationship. Another thing I have noticed is some people have to have a boyfriend/ girlfriend. This is because they are not comfortable with themsleves. Take the time to get to know yourself without being with someone. A strong relationship is greater than the sum of its parts, but not if you are going into it incomplete as a person and needing that other person.

Wow, that went a little long. As far as your situation. I'm curious as to why you can't tell the ex that your no longer interested. It seems as if you don't want to sever that tie which tells me that you aren't completely happy with the girl you are with. Maybe you should take some time off and figure out yourself.

Don't lie to us, you're 15, I know your hormones are off the charts right now, so go do what you know you wanna!

Quote: Originally Posted by Jonny English I've always wondered why you go in for open casket funereals in such a big way in the US ... putting the coffin into the furnace, or filling in a grave seems final enough to me.

I'd say it's more personal to say your last goodbyes to the body of your loved one than to a box.

Back to the topic at hand, I'd recommend telling her calmly that you are with your new girl now, as she should have seen when she followed you. Tell her that she will always have a special place in your heart and wish her well in the future. Then you can drop the pre-emptive strike of "We can still be friends, can't we?"

Breakups are like band-aids, it's best to get rid of the old one with one fast, quick rip.

Can you say " Go F*** yourself "? Works every time .

Quote: Originally Posted by Im_gumby Tell her that she will always have a special place in your heart and wish her well in the future. Then you can drop the pre-emptive strike of "We can still be friends, can't we?"

Grrrr, Gumby beat me to it. I like the idea of turning the tables and using the female's most common phrase after breaking up. She should definately get the picture then.
If not, then she is probably the Fatal Attraction type to begin with and you don't need her anyway.

Quote: Originally Posted by lokies_mom Can you say " Go F*** yourself "? Works every time .

LMAO...

Um.. I think AntiM said it best, dear. You don't have to be mean. Try the nice route first. Tell her that you're with someone new, and things aren't going to work out between you two, romantically. Tell her that there are other guys out there, and she should move on. If that doesn't deter her, take it from there.

Edit: If she's slightly off her rocker, "Can we be friends" may not do the job. She might think "Ooh, he wants to be friends! Maybe I can win him back evetually!" And then, things could get hairy. Use that line with caution.

Quote: Originally Posted by Anathema LMAO... Um.. I think AntiM said it best, dear. You don't have to be mean. Try the nice route first. Tell her that you're with someone new, and things aren't going to work out between you two, romantically. If that doesn't deter her, take it from there.

Well, I'm at the age where I can tell it like it is !!

All of this reminds me of Wayne's World...

Lara Flynn Boyle as the Psycho Hose Beast a.k.a. Stacey

Quote: Originally Posted by Anathema Edit: If she's slightly off her rocker, "Can we be friends" may not do the job. She might think "Ooh, he wants to be friends! Maybe I can win him back evetually!" And then, things could get hairy. Use that line with caution.

Good point Anathema, that just illustrates further the differences betrween how males and females think. A guy will DEFINATELY get the picture if a gal tells him, "Can we still be friends?"

Quote: Originally Posted by Im_gumby All of this reminds me of Wayne's World... Lara Flynn Boyle as the Psycho Hose Beast a.k.a. Stacey

LMAO i love the part were she runs into the car while screaming HIII WAYYNNEE

thanks for all your advice....yea, alot of u dont know how it is now days for us little sh!ts....shes not crazy, jus emotionally instable right now...so i think ill jus try the friends thing and mayb if that doesnt work go w/ what AntiM said.....Yea, some of the stuff we have to deal with is stuff that some of you guys never heard of when you were kids, im not trying to dumb you down or nethin, jus everythings different, thanks!

Quote: Originally Posted by Spc. Forces Bob oh no, a girl likes you, you poor thing. i dont know what i would do if i had 2 girls that liked me at once, that would just be aweful...

bob, u can go to hell...just kidding, this was jus a sticky situation ive never been in...