Not really sure but.....

Sparky · 06-July-04, 01:59 AM

Well im kinda lookin for advice on a subject im not too familiar with at all. I think im in love with my girlfriend, but everytime i get ready to confess my undying love for her i start to tear up! I get so embarrassed that i have to change the subject immediately for fear of letting her see me. Im so tempted to just abandon all reason and give way to my reckless love for her, but my mind just tells me its foolish, cause she wont love me back when she sees that i am crying. So my real question is it alright to cry in front of my girlfriend?

Fu3lman · 06-July-04, 02:03 AM

you both need to get drunk together, then you will both suddenly grow some bravery glands....

NoSlak · 06-July-04, 02:06 AM

* group Hug*
well if you dont want to cry I suggest using the shampoo in the pic I posted Sparky !.

But c'mon now you dont have to be ashamed to show your true feelings for her, cry I say , cry damn you !!! That's it keep 'em comin !!!!!
Don't be arfraid to show your femine side Sparky , she'll love you more knowing she can beat your ass at the drop of a hat !!!!!!

Fu3lman · 06-July-04, 02:08 AM

or she might very well beat your ass.....at the drop of a hat....

Sparky · 06-July-04, 02:09 AM

you guys are insensitive bastards the whole lot of you.......I dont even know why i stay here!

NoSlak · 06-July-04, 02:11 AM

Ok, well excuse the hell outa me , I felt your pain for about a billionth of a second then my testosterone kicked in.
Sparky you dont breast feed do you ????
Now go sign up for Ricki Lake !!!!!!

Sparky · 06-July-04, 02:14 AM

my love for her is deeper than the ocean, which is her eyes.....thats on her face. You wouldnt understand that kind of love noslak.

NoSlak · 06-July-04, 02:16 AM

Naw I prefer Dice man to 19th century , ahem" Hickory ****ory dock , thisB**** was suckin my ****, the clock struck 2, I blew my *** , and dropped her off on the next block!!!."

Now c'mon Sparky start puttin some Tabasco on your eggs....

Sparky · 06-July-04, 02:23 AM

Id figure that youd be a man and be able to see what kind of real pain im in here noslak. You need to grow the hell up punk......immature ass kid.

NoSlak · 06-July-04, 02:28 AM

The only pain I see here is I think I should of bought some stock in Kleenex tissues before you rented YA-YA Sisterhood buddy.

caxis0 · 06-July-04, 02:38 AM

Don't listen to all this foolishness, Sparky! I think it's really damned inspiring that you love her that deeply, you are very fortunate because **** like that, well... it just doesn't happen often, and for some people it never happens at all.

I could get a hickory ****ory **** sucking in a heart beat, but that's nothing compared to what you have! I am envious!

BUT! I say don't cry if you can help it. It's not about not showing your emotions, it's just ... oh man, there are a thousand ways that I shouldn't say this. Ya know, it depends really. If I were a girl and a guy couldn't help but tear up confessing his love to me, I think I would be truly touched. But... that kind of thing scares girls, too. Also, most girls I know don't want someone to share tears with, thats what other girls are for. The problem with a lot of intelligent men is that they are too sensitive and this is a huge turnoff to most women--they may say it's not, they may say they want a sensitive guy, but they don't. It's a lie.

You are worried that she doesn't love you back? How long have you two been together? I kinda agree with the alcohol idea... Wine is nice, and if anything should go wrong, then maybe it was just the wine talking... but that could also detract from the purity of the moment, if your going for that kinda thing.

Give some more details

Andrevas · 06-July-04, 03:07 AM

I don't find anything wrong with crying in front of the GF. If you love her you should be able to be around her no matter what, you can't just drive her away to shield her from your true self.

Just becareful when you think you love her, I've felt that way about 2 women in my life now and both ended up destroying me in the end.

HappyCamper · 06-July-04, 03:09 AM

It's your fcking party, cry if you want to dude. Don't be afraid, you've really got something special going for you. Break down and tell her, and I think she'll understand. If you've been holding it back for this long, there has to be some sort of emotional buildup. More than likely she'll understand.

Good luck, bro

EDIT: AS Andrevas said...

Your definition of love will grow and change as you meet new people and such. Be careful what you think love is. Don't let yourself be trampled on...goodluck again!

stereomod · 06-July-04, 03:25 AM

As the nike logo says "just do it" and get it over with

if yah need any other advice feel free to hit me up on msn!!!

TekXoID · 06-July-04, 03:31 AM

Well I guess I am just an insensitive asshole! Hey wait...that's already been confirmed...

You're a pussy. I've yet to meet a chix0r that wants to get serious with a
dude who cant even hold off his crying for a minute to confess his love.

"my love for her is deeper than the ocean, which is her eyes" Give me a fookin break...
You know, whales spill over 100 gallons of semen in that ocean every time they mate.

I hate poetry.

stereomod · 06-July-04, 03:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TekXoID


	Well I guess I am just an insensitive asshole! Hey wait...that's already been confirmed... You're a pussy. I've yet to meet a chix0r that wants to get serious with a dude who cant even hold off his crying for a minute to confess his love. *"my love for her is deeper than the ocean, which is her eyes"* Give me a fookin break... You know, whales spill over 100 gallons of semen in that ocean every time they mate. I hate poetry.

yup , agreed it has been comfirmed

j/k

sparky just needs to get it done and over with (hmm pimpette might be good here in this thread!!)

DuplexEmotions · 06-July-04, 03:47 AM

Just say it, dude. If you have to, do what I did, let it slip in gradually. We were talking about the extent of our relationship, where it had gone, and it got to the stage where we were both basically saying "I always had the feeling it would work out with you," and there it was; the perfect opportunity to say what you want, and if you're lucky, she'll be tearyeyed enough to not see you cry.

Though if she would hate you for crying, she'd probably hate you for loving her, too.

Rob · 06-July-04, 04:02 AM

I sent ya a PM, Sparky.

Rob

caxis0 · 06-July-04, 04:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rob


	I sent ya a PM, Sparky.

Just in case the pop up PM notification didn't clue him in . . .

Rob · 06-July-04, 04:15 AM

Well, he might have had it turned off in his user options, I don't know. Just giving him a heads up if he had it turned off, that's all.

I've got mine turned off.

Rob

06-July-04, 01:59 AM	#1 (permalink)
Sparky Apex Tech God Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Sundance, WYOMING BITCH! Posts: 2,274	Not really sure but..... Well im kinda lookin for advice on a subject im not too familiar with at all. I think im in love with my girlfriend, but everytime i get ready to confess my undying love for her i start to tear up! I get so embarrassed that i have to change the subject immediately for fear of letting her see me. Im so tempted to just abandon all reason and give way to my reckless love for her, but my mind just tells me its foolish, cause she wont love me back when she sees that i am crying. So my real question is it alright to cry in front of my girlfriend? __________________

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Fu3lman Light My Fire Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: closer than u think... Flames: 26,134 Posts: 3,241	you both need to get drunk together, then you will both suddenly grow some bravery glands.... __________________

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NoSlak Gridiron Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Hovering over the Neg Rep Button Posts: 3,640	* group Hug* well if you dont want to cry I suggest using the shampoo in the pic I posted Sparky !. But c'mon now you dont have to be ashamed to show your true feelings for her, cry I say , cry damn you !!! That's it keep 'em comin !!!!! Don't be arfraid to show your femine side Sparky , she'll love you more knowing she can beat your ass at the drop of a hat !!!!!! Attached Thumbnails

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Fu3lman Light My Fire Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: closer than u think... Flames: 26,134 Posts: 3,241	or she might very well beat your ass.....at the drop of a hat.... __________________

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Sparky Apex Tech God Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Sundance, WYOMING BITCH! Posts: 2,274	you guys are insensitive bastards the whole lot of you.......I dont even know why i stay here! __________________

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NoSlak Gridiron Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Hovering over the Neg Rep Button Posts: 3,640	Ok, well excuse the hell outa me , I felt your pain for about a billionth of a second then my testosterone kicked in. Sparky you dont breast feed do you ???? Now go sign up for Ricki Lake !!!!!!

06-July-04, 02:14 AM	#7 (permalink)
Sparky Apex Tech God Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Sundance, WYOMING BITCH! Posts: 2,274	my love for her is deeper than the ocean, which is her eyes.....thats on her face. You wouldnt understand that kind of love noslak. __________________

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NoSlak Gridiron Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Hovering over the Neg Rep Button Posts: 3,640	Naw I prefer Dice man to 19th century , ahem" Hickory **ory dock , thisB was suckin my , the clock struck 2, I blew my * , and dropped her off on the next block!!!." Now c'mon Sparky start puttin some Tabasco on your eggs....

06-July-04, 02:23 AM	#9 (permalink)
Sparky Apex Tech God Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Sundance, WYOMING BITCH! Posts: 2,274	Id figure that youd be a man and be able to see what kind of real pain im in here noslak. You need to grow the hell up punk......immature ass kid. __________________

06-July-04, 02:28 AM	#10 (permalink)
NoSlak Gridiron Join Date: Sep 2002 Location: Hovering over the Neg Rep Button Posts: 3,640	The only pain I see here is I think I should of bought some stock in Kleenex tissues before you rented YA-YA Sisterhood buddy.

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caxis0 BigA's Special Project Join Date: May 2004 Location: Little Rock, Arkansas, USA Posts: 166	Don't listen to all this foolishness, Sparky! I think it's really damned inspiring that you love her that deeply, you are very fortunate because ** like that, well... it just doesn't happen often, and for some people it never happens at all. I could get a hickory ory ** sucking in a heart beat, but that's nothing compared to what you have! I am envious! BUT! I say don't cry if you can help it. It's not about not showing your emotions, it's just ... oh man, there are a thousand ways that I shouldn't say this. Ya know, it depends really. If I were a girl and a guy couldn't help but tear up confessing his love to me, I think I would be truly touched. But... that kind of thing scares girls, too. Also, most girls I know don't want someone to share tears with, thats what other girls are for. The problem with a lot of intelligent men is that they are too sensitive and this is a huge turnoff to most women--they may say it's not, they may say they want a sensitive guy, but they don't. It's a lie. You are worried that she doesn't love you back? How long have you two been together? I kinda agree with the alcohol idea... Wine is nice, and if anything should go wrong, then maybe it was just the wine talking... but that could also detract from the purity of the moment, if your going for that kinda thing. Give some more details __________________ (Project Pics) -=- Main Rig: Barton 2800 + ASUS A7N8X 2 + GB Corsair XMS + Dual 36 RAID 0 Raptors + 9800 128 AIW + Plextor PX708a Combo + Samsung 191T LCD + 80, 120, & 250 7200 IDE WD HDDs + Noisetaker 470 PSU

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Andrevas Apex Elite Tech Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: Glenmoore, PA Posts: 1,156	I don't find anything wrong with crying in front of the GF. If you love her you should be able to be around her no matter what, you can't just drive her away to shield her from your true self. Just becareful when you think you love her, I've felt that way about 2 women in my life now and both ended up destroying me in the end. __________________ Examples of rigs I've built \| Check out my For Sale thread here!

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HappyCamper Apex Elite Tech Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Indiana Posts: 1,194	It's your fcking party, cry if you want to dude. Don't be afraid, you've really got something special going for you. Break down and tell her, and I think she'll understand. If you've been holding it back for this long, there has to be some sort of emotional buildup. More than likely she'll understand. Good luck, bro EDIT: AS Andrevas said... Your definition of love will grow and change as you meet new people and such. Be careful what you think love is. Don't let yourself be trampled on...goodluck again! __________________ Happy Camper

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stereomod Locked Account Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Getting A Banana For Being a good lil monkey! Posts: 2,553	As the nike logo says "just do it" and get it over with if yah need any other advice feel free to hit me up on msn!!!

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TekXoID Banned Join Date: May 2003 Location: looking for love in the nearest gay bar Posts: 4,089	Well I guess I am just an insensitive asshole! Hey wait...that's already been confirmed... You're a pussy. I've yet to meet a chix0r that wants to get serious with a dude who cant even hold off his crying for a minute to confess his love. *"my love for her is deeper than the ocean, which is her eyes"* Give me a fookin break... You know, whales spill over 100 gallons of semen in that ocean every time they mate. I hate poetry.

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DuplexEmotions Bi P-Hoe-lar Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 3,563	Just say it, dude. If you have to, do what I did, let it slip in gradually. We were talking about the extent of our relationship, where it had gone, and it got to the stage where we were both basically saying "I always had the feeling it would work out with you," and there it was; the perfect opportunity to say what you want, and if you're lucky, she'll be tearyeyed enough to not see you cry. Though if she would hate you for crying, she'd probably hate you for loving her, too. __________________ I wrote a haiku but it is not very good so I won't share it. "We act as though comfort and luxury were the chief requirements of life, when all that we need to make us happy is something to be enthusiastic about." -Albert Einstein

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Rob Advocatus Diaboli Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Home of the world's greatest race... Posts: 6,660	Well, he might have had it turned off in his user options, I don't know. Just giving him a heads up if he had it turned off, that's all. I've got mine turned off. Rob __________________