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| Apex Tech God | Well im kinda lookin for advice on a subject im not too familiar with at all. I think im in love with my girlfriend, but everytime i get ready to confess my undying love for her i start to tear up! I get so embarrassed that i have to change the subject immediately for fear of letting her see me. Im so tempted to just abandon all reason and give way to my reckless love for her, but my mind just tells me its foolish, cause she wont love me back when she sees that i am crying. So my real question is it alright to cry in front of my girlfriend?
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| Gridiron | * group Hug* well if you dont want to cry I suggest using the shampoo in the pic I posted Sparky !. But c'mon now you dont have to be ashamed to show your true feelings for her, cry I say , cry damn you !!! That's it keep 'em comin !!!!! Don't be arfraid to show your femine side Sparky , she'll love you more knowing she can beat your ass at the drop of a hat !!!!!! |
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| BigA's Special Project | Don't listen to all this foolishness, Sparky! I think it's really damned inspiring that you love her that deeply, you are very fortunate because **** like that, well... it just doesn't happen often, and for some people it never happens at all. I could get a hickory ****ory **** sucking in a heart beat, but that's nothing compared to what you have! I am envious! BUT! I say don't cry if you can help it. It's not about not showing your emotions, it's just ... oh man, there are a thousand ways that I shouldn't say this. Ya know, it depends really. If I were a girl and a guy couldn't help but tear up confessing his love to me, I think I would be truly touched. But... that kind of thing scares girls, too. Also, most girls I know don't want someone to share tears with, thats what other girls are for. The problem with a lot of intelligent men is that they are too sensitive and this is a huge turnoff to most women--they may say it's not, they may say they want a sensitive guy, but they don't. It's a lie. You are worried that she doesn't love you back? How long have you two been together? I kinda agree with the alcohol idea... Wine is nice, and if anything should go wrong, then maybe it was just the wine talking... but that could also detract from the purity of the moment, if your going for that kinda thing. Give some more details
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| Apex Elite Tech | I don't find anything wrong with crying in front of the GF. If you love her you should be able to be around her no matter what, you can't just drive her away to shield her from your true self. Just becareful when you think you love her, I've felt that way about 2 women in my life now and both ended up destroying me in the end.
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| Apex Elite Tech | It's your fcking party, cry if you want to dude. Don't be afraid, you've really got something special going for you. Break down and tell her, and I think she'll understand. If you've been holding it back for this long, there has to be some sort of emotional buildup. More than likely she'll understand. Good luck, bro EDIT: AS Andrevas said... Your definition of love will grow and change as you meet new people and such. Be careful what you think love is. Don't let yourself be trampled on...goodluck again!
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| Banned | Well I guess I am just an insensitive asshole! Hey wait...that's already been confirmed... ![]() You're a pussy. I've yet to meet a chix0r that wants to get serious with a dude who cant even hold off his crying for a minute to confess his love. "my love for her is deeper than the ocean, which is her eyes" Give me a fookin break... You know, whales spill over 100 gallons of semen in that ocean every time they mate. I hate poetry. |
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yup , agreed it has been comfirmed j/k sparky just needs to get it done and over with (hmm pimpette might be good here in this thread!!) | |||||||||||||||||||||||
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| Bi P-Hoe-lar | Just say it, dude. If you have to, do what I did, let it slip in gradually. We were talking about the extent of our relationship, where it had gone, and it got to the stage where we were both basically saying "I always had the feeling it would work out with you," and there it was; the perfect opportunity to say what you want, and if you're lucky, she'll be tearyeyed enough to not see you cry. Though if she would hate you for crying, she'd probably hate you for loving her, too.
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Just in case the pop up PM notification didn't clue him in . . .
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