if the video card is indeed upgradable then the first place to look is alienware. expect high prices tho, and maybe some complications.
i have a alienware 7700 that also has a removable
GPU 6800 Ultra Go. while i could upgrade it, it would also require me to upgrade my
mobo as well.
the
mobo is/was about $600, and about the same price for the new
GPU.
so, assuming you have luck on your side and your
mobo can support the new card, i would check with alienware, or ebay.
you could find out who actually makes that laptop, and check them out to see if they sell direct, but i doubt it.
my 7700 is made by Clevo. but if you narrow it down to the actual manufactor, that might be able to get you more hits on your search